peace like a river

First there were pink balloons in the tree. Then a bunch of pink balloons in the parking garage of the airport on our return from Disney Land. Then a solo pink balloon on a tread mill machine at the health club I hadn’t been to in over 7 months (yep, a daughter with cancer will make you forget to work out). So, what happens when you play songs that weren’t sad before diagnosis, but are now, and have a, um, apple juice*? Well, your daughter sends you this sign:

*yeah, that’s not really apple juice

P.S.  The glass cracked in the shape of a peace sign

P.S.S. The glass is full of whisky

P.P.S.S. Since Jessica doesn’t drink whisky or whiskey, this post isn’t from her.  It’s me, Charley

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68 Responses to peace like a river

  1. purejoy says:

    your daughter is very perceptive. you continue to be in my thoughts, and i check on you often. and i also wish i could make it better/more bearable. sigh.

  2. purplemoose says:

    Wow!! That’s just awesome. Praying more and more peace for you, Jessica Kate, and the children.

  3. Samantha says:

    I pray for peace for your family every single day. Sweet Tuesday, sending you a sign that it is okay to try to feel some peace.

  4. mrs boo radley says:

    Hi Charley.

    Incredible sign, I must say.

    Thought of dear Tuesday today.

  5. Kelli says:

    Hugs to you all. And yes, I do believe in signs from heaven. God be with you and give you peace.

  6. starnes family says:

    What amazing signs you’re receiving. God is special!

  7. Bre says:

    Oh Charley….little Tuesday is working her magic. She will always be with you guys in her own little ways. It’s so great to hear from you.

  8. BoufMom9 says:

    WOW! That is quite the sign!

    She will be with you, all those moments you need her and esp. in those moments you didn’t expect her.

    What a beautiful, beautiful blessing.

  9. Anonymous says:

    that is amazing… i’m glad your heart is open enough to receive the signs from your angel in heaven.

  10. Christy says:

    AMAZING!
    I love all the signs Tuesday is sending to you. Just makes me cry to think of all of them.
    Your family is always in my thoughts, prayers and in my heart.
    May God Bless you and keep you.

  11. Shannon says:

    Amazing! How wonderful that your little angel is giving you such clear (and clever!) signs πŸ™‚

  12. C says:

    wow. i DO believe in signs and miracles. god bless your hearts, you and hubby, kids.

    C

  13. Lynn says:

    Know that I’m here praying as always!
    John 11:25 Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:
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  14. Mama Kat says:

    I am such a believer in signs. You guys have been spoiled with so many!

  15. Mee2 says:

    What an amazing little angel.

  16. Tamara aka Cheapskate Mom says:

    Charley, what a gift! I wonder what a peace sign etched in a glass containing whisky means? How did it happen? Did you just look and see it?

    I will never forget Tuesday’s balloons. I blogged about it after I read Jessica Kate’s post: http://proudtobecheap.blogspot.com/2009/02/i-believe.html

    Anyway, signs no matter how small (or amazingly huge in your case!) have always brought me comfort. THey also make me wonder what I am doing here and how I can make my life better in the eyes of our maker.

    Bless you and prayers with you and your family always.

    Tamara

  17. Aunt SuSu says:

    Tuesday IS “Peace and Love” and will always let you know that she is with you. Charley, you are the best dad, always have been and always will be.

    Love,
    Aunt SuSu and Uncle Jim

  18. KJ says:

    Oh MY! That is amazing! How wonderful to still have her with you.

  19. Anonymous says:

    Charley–

    You are such a nut and I love that you are seeing the joys and find comfort in the simple things. I promise, promise, promise, it will get easier. There is no magical timeframe when all of the sudden your life goes back to “normal”. Miss Tuesday is looking out for you guys. Hold her in your heart and also know that you have so many people thinking about you and yours. We love you, man!! peace, cindy lou and maddie, too xoxoxoxo

  20. Terri says:

    What a sign! Little Tuesday is all around you! I think of her often. I think of all of you! I pray you will all find peace! (((HUGS)))

  21. -Shaken, not stirred says:

    πŸ™‚ this gave me goosebumps. The sign is lovely.

  22. Jane says:

    Awesome!!! And that’s a big glass of whiskey. πŸ™‚

  23. Garrett Family says:

    this gave me goosebumps – thanks so much for shareing!! You all are in my prayers!

  24. Susan says:

    That is absolutely amazing!!! So very cool. Your little girl Tuesday has changed many of our lives in such a positive way. You both are amazing people and we continue to lift your family in prayer as you try to move forward.

  25. Alisha says:

    Tuesday was such a beautiful little girl, and she continues to be a beautiful angel. God bless that little girl for her signs.

    Beautiful.

  26. Heather Luckett-Lyons says:

    A peace sign from an angel. What an amazing gift for you and your family.

    Hugs and prayers to all of you.

  27. Anonymous says:

    Charley….it’s so good to see you writing a post. I often think of you and how YOU are doing. Thank you for sharing with us all. It’s no suprise that Tuesday is giving you guys such amazing signs, she comes from an amazing family!!!

  28. Brans says:

    That is incredible. I pray for peace for your family.

  29. Tendrils says:

    Wow! I am a believer in “Signs” and that one is amazing!

    Still praying for you guys! Tuesday made quite an impact in our world… sending you hugs….

  30. Sadia says:

    How beautiful!

  31. ?Trina? says:

    I love how Tuesday keeps sending y’all messages to tell you she’s okay and that she is still with you. Not a day, and especially not a Tuesday, goes by without me thinking about your family. {{HUGS}} from Alabama!

  32. grandma mac says:

    Isn’t it such a wonderful Blessing to know that our loved ones are so close to us after they have passed? I know how much you miss Tuesday, and yet, she is making sure that you all know that she is “still there” with you. Praying for your family to have comfort and peace…Thanks for sharing your beautiful stories, they inspire and confirm the strength that faith in our Heavenly Father gives.

  33. BenLand says:

    She’s ok…..I’m sure that’s what she’s trying to tell you….and I’m glad you choose to share these signs with us…..
    God love Tuesday….what a great kid πŸ™‚

  34. namaste says:

    amazing. She just keeps sending signs to you all. I’m glad you have your eye’s open to them too!

  35. Avery Tales says:

    There are no words. Tuesday is perfect. Our Olivia is perfect. Wow.

  36. The Ryan Family says:

    Goosebumps…..Wow!
    Praise the LORD!

  37. Simply Complex says:

    I suspect you will find many, many more signs like these.

    You both continue to amaze me.

  38. Leslie says:

    So glad to hear your voice here again, Char.

    You’ve been missed!

  39. Becca says:

    Aren’t these little things amazing?

    My father in law died this month and we have noticed these things as well. Like, he was never late for ANYTHING. He always joked that the only thing he would be late for was his funeral. And what do you know…he was! The funeral home arrived with him when we did, which was about 15 minutes prior to the services. But when it was time to begin, he wasn’t there. The damn wheel had fallen off the cart that carries the casket!!! And about five minutes after his memorial was to begin, the wheel went back on with no problems. He had to keep his word.

    Thinking of you all.

  40. Beth says:

    I just love hearing about all the signs that Tuesday is sending your way!

    The peace sign is so neat….goose bumps over here!

    Praying for you guys everyday!

  41. TUTU Monkey says:

    Thinking of you…sending you a huge hug!!

  42. Jen B. says:

    What a neat sign from precious Tutu! Thinking of you all & praying for you always!

  43. Jenn M. says:

    I love all the signs and I love that you are noticing them! Sweet little Tuesday is saying “I love you”! God is amazing!
    P.S. I will never forget the first sign of hearing her song on the radio when we were with you guys just hours after her passing….still gives me goose bumps when I think of it.

  44. mames says:

    there is something about that daughter of yours that is just so present, so vital. i love that her sign came on the side of your glass of whiskey.

    sending as many loving hugs as i do to your wife whenever i think of your family.

  45. Momma@Live. Laugh. Pull your hair out says:

    Wow! She is letting you know that all is well. Amazing.

  46. Whimsical Creations says:

    WOW, those are some pretty stong signs! Hugs to you and your family!

  47. Sarah says:

    How comforting(ish) to see those signs. That peace sign is incredible.

  48. kelly @ alacrity designs says:

    crazy. beautiful.

  49. Lynn says:

    The Lord knows everything that’s going to happen in the future and is already working everything out. Praying!
    Jeremiah 29:11-13 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
    Prayer BearsMy email address

  50. Sarah70 says:

    Hi Charley, I got goosebumps reading your post! Your family is my prayers everyday. God bless you.
    ~Sarah~

  51. Brandi says:

    Yep, think Tutu was trying to send you some love. I continue to pray for you guys, and Tuesday is never far from my thoughts.

  52. Jess says:

    Is she not just amazing?

  53. Lynn says:

    Know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers!
    2 Samuel 22:2-3 And he said, The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; The God of my rock; in him will I trust: he is my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my high tower, and my refuge, my saviour…
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  54. * TONYA * says:

    So many signs.

    She is okay.

    Love you guys and think of you every day.

    Mwah.

  55. Alliegatorfables says:

    I hope you do find peace. You have survived the un-imaginable and I do hope that your family will find peace. Thinking of you!!!

  56. Rachel says:

    praying that your hurting hearts do find peace….

  57. Lynn says:

    Stopping by to let you know I’m here praying!
    Romans 15:13 Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.
    Prayer BearsMy email address

  58. MJMILLS says:

    amazing! what an angel she is

  59. houseofgirls+1 says:

    ((((hugs))))
    I think of Tuesday each and every day. God Bless you and your family.

  60. L I S A says:

    She’s watching over you and your family. She’s ok, better than ok and wants you to be ok too.

    Can’t wait to share a bottle with you and JK when you guys come through here.

    xo
    lisa

  61. Sharlene says:

    Amazing!

  62. Anonymous says:

    Amazing.

  63. Kacey R. says:

    Hi Charley. That is an incredible sign. I certainly hope you enjoyed that whiskey while admiring it.

    Praying for more peace and comfort to come for you & your family.

  64. mommaof4wife2r says:

    ok, the glass is amazing…and what a great little tidbit of note form the lord. here’s to more peace!

  65. Meg says:

    Whoa!

  66. raino says:

    man! a peace sign…that is amazing.

  67. tbonegrl says:

    amazing. she is with you.

  68. Michelle says:

    That is pretty amazing!